While there is debate over the beginnings of this trend or reasons behind it, there is no denying that these boozier pours exist in LGBTQ establishments. It’s called “the gay pour” and it has become a hallmark of the gay nightlife experience. In Baltimore-area gay bars and clubs there is an expectation among loyal patrons that bartenders will have a heavy hand when it comes to pouring liquor. “It comes down to community and a way to keep your customers coming back.” “They’re trying to make it feel welcoming,” he explained.